Known actor of Pakistani television Nauman Ijaz, expressed his opinion about increasing expenditures of weddings
In a society that celebrates weddings as symbols of love, union, and new beginnings, “marriage has lost its true meaning,” authored this change when Nauman Ijaz, known actor of Pakistani television, expressed his opinion that highlighted an important debate related to increasing expenditures of weddings. Indeed, his idea that “marriage has come to mean months of toil entertaining 400 guests when perhaps they do not truly mean well” has resonated widely.
Related to this is an insight into the increasing discomfort that exists in contemporary Pakistani weddings.
When Social Approval Becomes the Main Guest
Modern weddings are increasingly being influenced by the pressure of societal expectations rather than individual preferences. Lavish venues, designer clothes on the bride and the wedding party, never-ending celebrations, and endless guest lists are the new trends that are set by the world outside the couples’ bedrooms. It is often the fear of being left out that causes the family to splurge on expensive celebrations rather than just the joy of the occasion.
Ijaz’s comments bring into focus the tough reality that many guests are there out of duty, not devotion. When that happens, the wedding function goes from a celebration of the union to a performance of image. The costs in terms of a family’s emotional capital—finances, fatigue, stress—remains hidden under the sparkle.
Financial Burden Hidden within Tradition
What’s alarming in this regard is how much of a strain it has on a family’s finances. The savings that have been painstakingly accumulated over several years get exhausted in a matter of days. Loans have to be taken. One has to compromise on one’s or their family’s requirements in life. The purpose of all this? To live up to the societal expectation of how a decent wedding should be.
This comment challenges the normalization of this situation. A marriage should symbolize the beginning of a comfortable life, not the end that results from the expenditure of money. “To impress hundreds of guests, the desire for a ‘big’ wedding can easily overshadow the welfare of the newlyweds.”
Losing the Emotional Heart of Marriage
In essence, marriage is a deeply intimate experience. However, where the luxury is concerned, this aspect is usually relegated to the background. People become overwhelmed by routines and rituals to the point where there is no time to cherish the experience.
“Happiness isn’t counted by the number of guests or by grandness,” says Ijaz, reminding us that happiness isn’t to be judged by how many guests are at the table—nor by how
A Plea for Simplism and Significance
People like Nauman Ijaz have a critical role to play in public discussions. His perspective brings society to rethink their priorities and make them aware of the things that really matter to them. Simpler wedding ceremonies with family and friends will decrease the tension and allow the couple to focus on their upcoming life instead of their wedding ceremonies.
Amidst the growing talk on mental health issues, financial prudence, and personal freedom, one hopes that the culture of weddings in Pakistan is on the verge of change.
Redefining Celebration in a Changing Society
Message is far beyond criticisms; it is a call to reassess some traditions which lost their relevance. Real celebration is in authenticity, emotions, love, and mutual respect, not in ostentations of excesses.
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